Farjin mace na farji : Aiki mai halakarwa

Kwanan nan, mata da yawa sun tsunduma cikin al'ada da ke samun ci gaba sosai : kumburin farji, al'adar da ba ta da sakamako a cikin rayuwar jima'i na karshen.

Ƙunƙarar farji al'ada ce ta maido da ƙunƙuntaccen siffa ga sashin jima'i. A cewar masu bin wannan dabi'a, maƙarƙashiya yana sa ya yiwu a sake sabunta kayan aikinta na al'aura daga ingantattun samfuran. Masana ilimin likitancin mata sun yi la'akari da shi a matsayin haɗari ga daidaiton jima'i, abin takaici wannan al'ada a zamanin yau ta zama wani salo ga mata da yawa.. "Na shiga cikin wannan aikin don ba da ƙunci fiye da fadi ga sashin jima'i", Geneviève ya gaya mana wanda bai yi shakkar shigar da shi ba. “Yana bani damar farantawa mutumina rai. Domin har yanzu yana jin kuruciya a gareni", Ta kara da cewa a lokacin da take gudu "Ina siyan kayana a kantin magani. Wannan hanyar tana da tasiri sosai don sanya mutumin ku cikin kwanciyar hankali a gado ». A cewar Natalie, kawata ta sana'a, Galibin ‘yan matan da suka zabi matsawa sashinsu na jima’i suna yin hakan ne sakamakon matsin lamba daga ma’aurata. “Idan ma’auratan ya ga ba ya samun ni’ima idan aka yi la’akari da fadin gabar gabar matarsa, zai iya tambayar na karshen ya kara tsananta wannan. Amma kuma akwai 'yan mata bayan jima'i mai tsanani sun yanke shawarar mayar da komai zuwa wuri daya don sanya abokin tarayya ya yarda cewa ba su da karfi a jima'i a baya., ta fada. A daya bangaren kuma, Chantal ya yi imanin cewa, 'yan matan da suka koma wannan hanyar, su ne wadanda ke da matsananciyar jima'i da rashin jin dadi idan aka yi la'akari da girman siffar al'aurar.. “In ba haka ba, me ya sa ake amfani da irin wannan hanyar. Tsaftar farjinta ta hanyar toilet mai kyau ya isheta., Ta ce.

Tasirin irin wannan hanyar

A yau samfurori da yawa suna ba da damar aiwatar da wannan canjin yanayin jiki wanda ba tare da sakamako ba musamman idan an yi shi ba tare da ra'ayin likitan mata ba.. An ayyana shi azaman mai jurewa ko ma rashin yiwuwar kowane shiga, Vaginismus, alal misali, ana ɗaukarsa a matsayin rashin lafiya wanda ke sa shigar mata da zafi sosai. Wannan cuta, wacce a cewar kwararru, tana bayyana ne ta hanyar ƙunshewar tsokoki na vulvo-perineal, don haka yana haifar da matsewar cikin perineum da tsokoki na farji, kuma shine sanadin jin zafi mai zafi da zafi ga mata yayin shiga ciki., yana daya daga cikin illar takurawar farji. "Tabbas cewa matan da suka rage fadin farjinsu ba su da masaniya game da hadarin da suke gudu tun da ciwon kunkuntar farji abu ne mara kyau," in ji Nathalie.. "Ba shi da fahimta" in ji Diane. Ga yarinyar nan, “Babu ma’ana a so ki mayar da siffa ta al’aurarki da yin ta, hanya ce ta dagula rayuwa idan aka yi la’akari da barnar da wannan aikin zai iya haifarwa”..

Saboda haka Neman matse farji haxari ne ga masu ba da rancen kansu., saboda haka zai zama dole, kamar yadda ungozoma Viviane O. “Kungiyoyi waɗanda ke ba lafiyar jima'i da haihuwa fifiko, sannan hatta hukumomin lafiya su yi tunanin wayar da kan ‘yan mata kan illar da ke tattare da wannan dabi’a mai hadari”.. Ta gayyaci 'yan mata da su kara sani, domin "Farjin da ya rasa siffarsa ba zai iya sake dawowa ba, dole ne ku sani kuma kuyi zabinku. Zabi mai nadama. Wato, kuna jiran lokaci cikakke don zuwa jima'i ko dai, ka dauka sakamakon aikin jima'i da wuri yana haifar da fadada bangon farji", Ta karasa maganar.

Firmin KASSAGA