Multi sexual partnership : A fashionable destructive practice

Characterized by having a romantic or sexual relationship with more than one person, the multi sentimental partnership is nowadays taking a meteoric rise.

For some it is a way to diversify their carnal pleasure. For others, it allows you to live several experiences at the same time. The multiple sexual or sentimental partnership is a fashionable practice. so that, more and more, having one or only one partner in many young people seems to make no sense. The multiple sexual or sentimental partnership is the choice that many young people make. For these last ones, you have to conquer as many girls as possible for men and women, you have to charm more than one man.

"Society today imposes a certain number of things on the young people that we are and the multiple sexual partnership is one of them.. For someone who is not officially in a union with a woman, it is possible that he has relations with two to three girls in order to watch his back in case the one he thinks is the most serious, kidding », tries to justify Sylvanus who adds that "the multiple sexual partnership in question here is different from polygamy". “I have three boyfriends”, suggests a young girl in her twenties. for her, the one she calls the holder is not as well off as the other two and so, she thought she had other men who could help her meet these financial needs. We could therefore understand that the primary objective for some young girls in embarking on this practice is economic.. For the boys, the only reason is pleasure.

On the subject, Fréjus is categorical: “Our sisters today no longer allow us to be in a relationship with a single girl. They force us to have others through their behavior”. The behaviour, this is also what some girls blame young boys for. “No man is serious these days”, called Graziella. "If you're in league with a man today and you trust him at 100%, you will end up being disappointed and so you also have to plan for that. This is what leads some girls to have more than one partner., let the young lady know. An assertion that does not seem to be shared by other people.

The multi-partnership, the destruction of a life

For Hortense, a woman included in more than one relationship practices prostitution purely and simply. "Men's sexual behavior shouldn't cause young girls to get on the same track. Those who do, it's for money, nothing else. We are tempted to understand the sexual behavior of certain men, but to use it as an example is not worthy of a woman., supports lady Hortense. On both sides, the damage is numerous in terms of health but also sometimes social. "It's a mess. A drift that does not say its name », Clement is offended, a sexagenarian. According to him, this evil has been growing for several years, especially among young people. “Someone who has not learned to put their life in order can never have promising projects for themselves”, he hammers.

"Multiple sexual partnerships expose young people to the loss of control over their sexuality. It is certain that for the one who maintains relations with several partners at the same time, lying becomes a common activity. This vice sets in gradually and sometimes becomes chronic.. This situation can, in some cases, transform the young person into a slave of the partners whom he seeks to satisfy at all costs and at all costs”, adds blogger Vanessa Ngono. She explains that multiple sexual partnerships are today one of the causes of many diseases among young people..

By dating several men or several women at the same time, the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection or an unwanted pregnancy is great. " First of all, it is the body that takes. physical wear and tear, early and unwanted pregnancies, abortions, mostly illegal, and maternal mortality are evils that invite themselves to such a choice in the young girl. Multi-partnership is an open door to sexually transmitted diseases and infections (IS) but also to HIV/AIDS among young people”. In addition to health damage, the practice can decrease self-confidence since the followers of this method are sometimes forced to be more attentive than necessary.

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