Interview with the founder of ‘’ Sorrocoeur ’’:"Communication is important in a couple", dixit Christian Caleb Doumatey

Sunday 23 August 2020, the community of “Sorrocoeur” met in a bar in the square in Fidjrossè. A meeting that will have allowed the members to discuss an important subject in a couple : la communication. In an interview he gave us, Christian Caleb Doumatey, founder of "Sorrocoeur" raises a corner of the veil on the objective of this meeting while deciding on the theme discussed. Read instead !!!!

What is the purpose of the meeting ?

The objective of this meeting is to create a physical contact with the members of the community which is very active on the new media that are WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and blog subscribers www.sorrocoeur.com. It was a moment of sharing experiences, various exchanges and discovery of other members of the community. otherwise, it should be remembered that the theme of this meeting is "How to communicate effectively in your couple".

Why is this communication important in a relationship? ?

This communication is important because a couple who communicates well can overcome any situation.. Communication in a couple is a major pillar in the durability of the couple and the development of the members..

What are the highlights of this communication ?

Our concern is to participate in the harmony of couples. The chosen theme which is "How to communicate effectively in your couple". So, during this communication, the salient points mentioned are among others, "the codes of communication", "learning to know each other", “expressions and their meanings”, “attitudes and their meanings”, “tone and moods” and “timing of communication”. We also discussed the characteristics of communication in a couple that are "active listening", " hindsight", "deep analysis", "Visualizing the Goal", "couple harmony", "tolerance in dialogue", "openness and transparency", “the diversity of discussions : jokes and jokes », «discussions constructives», "future projects", "talking time", etc.

What impression did you have of the members regarding this subject? ?

My impression vis-à-vis the members has been reinforced. This community, which was already very active, spared no effort to give its opinions., opinions and share experiences. It is a community of people who are in a quest for happiness and who walk according to a vision and values ​​specific to each member.. It's a community of people who bring each other new things so that everyone is really happy in their love life..

To end this interview, what to remember about “Sorrocoeur” ?

“Sorrocoeur” is a blog dedicated to life as a couple. It is for partners (men and women) who share something intimate. Indeed, the word "Sorrocoeur" is composed of the prefix "Sorro" which means in Yoruba "To speak" and the radical "heart". It is for us to speak out to address topics related to heart problems and couple life..

With us, they say that speech is like an egg. When it breaks, it's hard to get it back as it is. It is therefore necessary to know how to be measured before speaking. What calls for deep reflection, an acute sense of analysis and a good dose of impartiality before speaking out on such a sensitive topic. Nothing can act as a theory or a law when it comes to life as a couple.. On "Sorroheart", it's all about analyzes and reflections on the different aspects and parameters of life as a couple.

                                                                                       Interview by : Patrice Adjaho