Desires of women in bed : The secrets

According to a study and without surprise, women are when it comes to sex, more uninhibited than before. They express their desires more and are satisfied with their sexualities even if barriers remain. State of play in 10 points.

Indeed, women are often more emotionally connected to their sexual partners than men. Consequently, they place more value on emotional intimacy and connection in the bedroom. This means that a passionate, attentive lover who takes the time to understand their partner's needs and desires is often more valued than someone who simply focuses on physical pleasures..

1003 women were interviewed online for an Ipsos survey. What do we learn about women's desire??

Women express their sexual desires more.

O joy! 97% women express more what they want in bed and they find it positive (whatever the age, family situation or level of education). BUT even if for some women, there is perfect equality, men with their freedom of speech are still one step ahead. Only a small majority of women surveyed (51%) dare to talk about their fantasies as much as men.

They talk more about their fantasies but rarely realize them.

who are in the earth… I bring them back to life… It is a work of memory conservation that I do, less than 1 woman in 4 (24%) admits to having fulfilled one of his fantasies. So we would talk about it a lot more but we wouldn't do much? Researchers explain it: we are less embarrassed to talk about it since in any case, we don't take action.

Level of sexual satisfaction: 7/10.

Not bad but it's not Peru either. So of course, there are the lucky ones who notice themselves 9/10, but there are not many of them (19%). And what a good one, but can do better” comes out, it’s mainly because we still don’t dare enough to ask our partner to play the fairy and fulfill our fantasies.

Almost 1 woman in 2 would like to have more frequent intercourse

47% Exactly, against 6% who would like to slow down. The investigation explains it: women do not take enough initiative in the sexual act (only 1 sure 2 the fact (53%)). Therefore, they self-censor. Information to be moderated according to age, compared to their elders, 69% of 18-24 years take the lead. The fiery ones…

The 18-24 years like more liberated sexual practices

63% of 18-24 enjoy cunnilingus. This is more than all women (52%). This age group also stands out for fellatio (58% like against 47 globally) and the practice of 69 (54% against 48). Not completely crazy practices but among young people, as for the 25-34 years, we like things that our mothers like less, or not at all.

No swinging, of sadomasochism or infidelity for the majority of women

Challenge companies and, all in the same basket, the 18-24 do not clash. 92% between them, against 91% globally, don't like swinging. So even if the younger generation is more open to switching partners or making love with several people, she remains almost as much as the elders, resistant to these practices.

Only 33% women like to be dominated

The sexual act is no longer seen as a dominant/dominated relationship. They like being under their partner just as much, than playing the lioness. But among the youngest, the difference is clear: 70% of them like to be dominated. But once again, roles change: the man does not always lead the dance.

The game: success among young women

These are games of sensory restrictions, like blind love. Almost half of 18-24 years (46%) like to be blindfolded and 54% like to blindfold their partner. For sex toys, more surprise: They come in all the colors of the rainbow, and some give the orgasm of the century in 5 minutes, but only 1 woman on 4 (27%) appreciate. The 25-34 are the biggest fans (41%)

31% of women would like to have more self-confidence

To the question “what do women want?? », the answers are varied and diversified according to the ages. But self-confidence often comes back. At the 60 years and over, it’s tenderness that has first place on the podium.

22% of 18-24 years want “savagery” in bed

A little Xena the warrior but not totally Rambo either, sensuality is not left out, and they are the ones who say they need self-confidence the most (42%). Ok for the little spanking, but we don't forget the kisses in the process.

Source Biba Magazine