Confidence : What they like in bed

In pursuit of a fulfilling sex life, the young girls of Cotonou are not necessarily experts in Kamasutra. More, they like to get out of their comfort zones in order to reach orgasm. For that, they do not hesitate to try several sexual positions. Many of them prefer doggy style, even if they do get bored with the other positions in order to get out of the routine.

“Sexuality is first and foremost a space for encountering oneself with oneself”, says Carlotta Munier, Gestalt therapist and author of “Feminine Sexuality : towards a fulfilling intimacy ». And a fulfilling sex life calls for preparation and self-sacrifice from each of the two partners.. Having sex is not necessarily just about penetration. It is also necessary to know how to adopt the position that can allow both partners to experience the sexual act well.. This choice depends mainly on the partner. In Cotonou, young girls have their preference and assume it. Draslaine, student in a private university in Cotonou lets go all excited : " Me, I like doggy style ». “I love doggy style. It's emotional Doggystyle is when my partner takes me from behind", ignites Pierrette, a young fruit seller. Student in Terminale class, Ruth has the same preference and one more. " Me, I really like the position 69 (Both lying head to tail on a bed or sofa, your mouth is located at the level of his penis and your vagina in front of his mouth) and the doggy style », does she inform. Old, student at the University of Abomey-Calavi likes "The Tiger's Approach". She explains that "it's doggy style but sleeping". “Most often me and my partner adopt the spoon position”, informs Durane while laughing “It’s a tender position, which often seems much too simple to promise ecstasy. We lie on the same side, he stands behind, her belly against my back to take me to 7th heaven. The spoon hides many mysteries ». On the other hand, Geneviève has no preference. “I adapt to everything”.

What drives these choices? ?

Behind every choice of these young girls, there is a motivation. It can vary depending on the girl. “I have more pleasure with these two positions especially with the doggy style”, supports Ruth. She explains that when her partner takes her in other positions, she finds pleasure even if it is not as intense as with doggy style. For Draslain, doggy style gives "a feeling that we can't explain". With enthusiasm and desire, she lets go "it's too sweet". Pierrette likes doggy style because "it hits the bottom well", and "the feeling is strong". More, she finds that it makes men ejaculate quickly. “The pleasure is more intense on both sides”, confirms Vana. When Durane was called to justify her choice, she smiles and closes her eyes slightly before declaring "we love (her partner and her) this position because it allows penetration from behind and the impression that the bodies fit together generates a deep feeling of fusion”. She adds "she (the position of the spoon) doesn't require too much effort".

Do not fall into routine

Although girls have a certain preference for this or that position, they do not hesitate to try out the other positions they know. Ruth, with his two preferences, likes the missionary even if she finds that "it's too childish. 'Cause it doesn't feel. Because it is enough for the woman to be lying on her back. The man is lying on top of her.. More, she can't stand the jackhammer (Installed in “candle”, you hold your loins with your hands. Meanwhile, your partner straddles your legs, your sexes at the same level).  Durane does not sulk the doggy style, riding position, the missionary. She goes further : “and others that we create ourselves, genre, we don't know if it exists what". As for Vana, she thinks doggy style and the lounge chair are “cool”. She likes to explore doggy style too from time to time, Andromache, the spoons, sexy scissor and missionary edit. "The Andromache, this position gives the woman control of the pace and depth of penetration, giving her the freedom to mix between deep and shallow thrusts. And for the man, he has a wonderful view of his partner's body".

Sex has many health benefits

Beyond Positions, sexual practice whatever it is is good for health. According to an American study published in 2004 and put online by whydoctor.fr, the frequency of sexual intercourse would influence the immune system. Researchers found that people who had sex at least twice a week had more defenses against germs and viruses. On the other hand, according to the same source, sex could also reduce the risk of prostate cancer in men and contribute to the proper functioning of the joints. But the list does not end there ! Making love would also help lower blood pressure in the long term,  which decreases the risk of developing heart problems – and stress. otherwise, during the act, the muscles are solicited and the heart rate increases while sweating eliminates toxins. The benefits would therefore be comparable to physical exercise.. Finally, final positive aspects : sex burns calories and also makes it easier to fall asleep if the hug takes place in the evening.

Arthur SESSI (Coll)